I haven’t written a new blog post in quite a while, but that’s mostly because I’ve been as sick as a dog. Like, so sick that I was starting to get depressed. I couldn’t see the end. I’m out of it now, and it’s glooooorious! I forgot how awesome it felt to feel normal!
People say “every pregnancy is different” and you kind of roll your eyes and expect more of the same (especially if this is your third go round), but this time has been SO different. I won’t be surprised if the rest of my pregnancy throws me for a loop as well. I have a feeling this baby is a little trouble maker.
Anyway, I’m sure I’ve written about the “phase” phenomena in other blog posts, but I’ll go ahead and bring it up just in case you missed it. I’ve found that motherhood goes in phases. You go through “super hard, cry your eyes out, failing at life” phases and then you go through “this is cake, let’s have a million kids, I am woman hear me roar” phases. I think a while back I wrote a blog post about how 2 kids was cake. I was going through a particularly awesome phase. They played nicely. I was happy. They were reasonable. It was wonderful. And then came this whirlwind of a pregnancy. And then things weren’t easy. Everything was hard. Everything made me throw up. It’s hard to see the rainbow when the rain is pouring all around you.
It was a nice little epiphany when Marvin and I discovered the phase thing a while back. It helps because when we’re going through a particularly hard time with the kids or finances or life and one of us is having a hard time seeing the positive the other one is there to remind you “it’s just a phase”.
2014 was a nice year. They’ve all been particularly nice since 2009 when I met the man I was going to marry. He makes life better and happier and easier. I go through moments where I am amazed that he is really THIS great and I am really THIS lucky.
We kept a “Most Memorable Moments of 2014” jar and filled it with scribbled little pieces of paper containing our favorite memories. I found myself reading them and thinking “Wait, that was this year? It feels like FOREVER ago”. I thought it would be nice to share a few of my favorites (the quotes are funny things Elaina said):
January 16th: “I like to punch people.” & “I fell like a mermaid.” (after flopping out of her chair)
February 3rd: Mom gets offered a job
February 5th: While out in public a sweet stranger took the time to compliment me on my patience and tell me that I was a good mom. (It brought tears to my eyes.)
February 8th: “I wish I was a coffee pot.”
February 18th: 9 month old Dane slept through the night for the FIRST TIME EVER!
April 19th: The best dad I’ve ever met spent a sweaty, mosquito afternoon putting together his daughter’s swingset
April 29th: Dane finally drinks out of SOMETHING that isn’t his mother
May 8th: Dane’s last time nursing. YAYYYYY!
May 9th: “We gotta buy a new baby cause Dane keeps YELLING!”
May 31st: Elaina catches a nasty stomach bug and we’re forced to cancel Dane’s 1st birthday
June 2nd: Elaina teaches Dane to say “no” and “ball” in 10 seconds (after Mom tries for MONTHS to no avail)
July 13th: Dane starts taking steps and Elaina is BEYOND excited!
August: Mom gets a second job!
Oct 4th: Mom and Dad find out baby #3 is on the way (and manage to keep it secret for 3 weeks)
Nov 7th: “Hello baby, I understand you’re in Mom’s belly?”
Nov 16th: Marvin develops the van wave
Nov 16th: What if the baby is a boy? “It’s NOT! She told me!”
In 2015 Marvin and I will witness our godchild’s baptism (still can’t believe someone picked ME! what an honor), Marvin and I will celebrate 4 years of marriage, I’ll get to party (pregnant woman style) for one of my oldest friend’s bachelorette party, one of my favorite couples will get married, we’ll welcome another sweet soul into our family and my very first baby will turn FIVE (crazy). Wishing you and yours a Happy New Year!